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Ask HN: What book has been most influential in your life?

by ricberw on 10/4/23, 2:56 PM with 29 comments

Could also be any written content, like a blog post or an essay.
  • by warrenm on 10/4/23, 4:49 PM

    Here are a few of mine:

    Flatland by Edwin Abbott - if it doesn't break your brain thinking about seeing in shadows of reality, and never being able to all of anything at once, you need to read it again

    A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking - read it a couple years ago on vacation as my "beach read". Thought a bunch of what he wrote was pretty interesting/entertaining (though I disagree with some of his presuppositions and/or conclusions). Also made watching Tenet more enjoyable. And gave me an idea for a story (that I do not know how to write) wherein there is a class of people who only "remember the future" - they know what is going to happen before it happens, but as soon as it happens, they forget ... iow, they experience time half-backwards (they live it forward, but can not recall anything once it's occurred - it's all a "prediction" or "guess" to them...just like the future is to everyone else)

    Red Storm Rising by Tom Clancy - contemplating a 100% 'conventional' WWIII, Clancy does a couple interesting things in the story that I have often wondered why they have not been talked about elsewhere (maybe they have in classified circles, but certainly not anywhere I have run across them) ... notably, using a A-10 Thunderbolts flying close to the deck over the ocean to strafe thin-hulled warships

    Learning Basic for Tandy Computers by David A Lien - first programming book I ever had/used (it's even available on Internet Archive - https://archive.org/details/LearningBasicForTandyComputers/) ... got me into programming/scripting when I was about 10

  • by aristofun on 10/5/23, 9:47 AM

    You may not like it, but the bible is still the most influential book today.

    Even if you’re not spiritual or never read it yourself - all the story archetypes used in modern fiction are there. Not to mention ethical standards.

    Literally there is very little fundamentally new in literature that isn’t there already in the bible in one way or another.

  • by k310 on 10/4/23, 4:21 PM

    Probably One, Two, Three, Infinity by George Gamow. Got me started, as well as a few others.

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Two_Three..._Infinity

    Name drops Neil deGrasse Tyson (Is he that old?)

    Internet Archive has a 1961 copy.

    https://ia801305.us.archive.org/19/items/OneTwoThreeInfinity...

    The Nature of the Universe, by Fred Hoyle, as well.

  • by skydhash on 10/6/23, 12:44 AM

    Getting Things Done by D. Allen: I don't really follow the methodology, but it taught me the importance of always having a clear task list for your days and projects you may have.

    Value-based fees by A. Weiss: I was a freelancer and it taught me the importance of building a relationship that's more than just providing a service.

    So Good They Can't ignore you by C. Newport: Got my head of the sand and makes me realize that no one really thinks that you're special. You can only get ahead with your project by being valuable (Not sure this is the exact message, but that's what I learned)

    Atomic Habits by J. Clear: Helped me realize that big changes comes from small actions. So I always try to frame what I want to achieve in that way.

  • by extasia on 10/5/23, 10:33 AM

    When I was around 14 or so I read an blogpost that we would now describe as being incel-like. It had a really profound and negative effect on my relationships with women for almost a decade unfortunately.
  • by mindcrime on 10/4/23, 3:18 PM

    It's hard to name just one, but off the top of my head, a few obvious possibilities include:

    The Selfish Gene (Dawkins) - helped nudge me over the line in terms of really identifying as an atheist, by satisfactorily refuting any lingering hints of the "irreducible complexity" argument that were lodged in my brain.

    The Fountainhead (Rand) - I actually saw the movie before reading the book, but the Howard Roark character is a real role model character to me.

    The Four Steps to the Epiphany (Blank) - As far as I'm concerned, this is THE book for startup founders / entrepreneurs. Very detailed, very logical, iterative process for building a company, defining a product, finding customer base, etc.

    Nineteen Eighty-four (Orwell) - Read this one my senior year in High School and it left a profound mark on my psyche. I was already leaning towards a very individualistic / libertarian worldview, but 1984 really enflamed my hatred for big, heavy-handed, oppressive government(s).

  • by bwh2 on 10/5/23, 6:18 PM

    Difficult Conversations. So much stress and anxiety comes from anticipating, avoiding, or not knowing how to have difficult conversations.
  • by simonblack on 10/4/23, 11:12 PM

    Interesting question.

    The book that popped into my head from my subconscious when I read the question was 'Catch-22'. I was a teenager when I read that. It taught me to be less naive, more cynical. It was also very, very funny. And it tickled my offbeat Sense of Humor.

  • by aszantu on 10/5/23, 12:08 PM

    bible was the first book - weirdly enough, what I took from it was that women are worthless, and so I never wanted to be one... so I behaved like the boys did, screaming, biting, fighting a lot... feels like a lot has gone wrong after this, and hopefully I took enough pain, so someone else didn't have to suffer like this.

    Then I was pretty much raised by the Perry Rhodan scifi books - they were a bit like star trek, lots of physics in there, that lasted from 6-16 or so, I guess I missed puberty a bit.

    byron katie's - the work, turned around a lot of beliefs I held, I've been suffering less lately.

  • by thenerdhead on 10/6/23, 2:53 PM

    Thus Spoke Zarathustra, The Tao Te Ching, or Meditations.

    As for stories, Greek or Norse mythology. Many of the concepts in the book above come from these myths.

  • by trumbitta2 on 10/5/23, 7:11 AM

    Jonathan Livingston Seagull.

    Left around at home to indoctrinate me into "stuff" at age 8. Ended up being the first sparkle of my rebellion against "stuff".

  • by dhr on 10/5/23, 6:37 PM

    Probably Life of Pi by Yann Martel.

    The message of choosing the better story is at the heart of the book, and I apply it in so many areas of my life.

  • by stealthcat on 10/5/23, 12:03 PM

    Quran
  • by ensocode on 10/6/23, 8:01 AM

    Rich Dad Poor Dad - financially
  • by austin-cheney on 10/6/23, 8:43 AM

    Foundation and Empire