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Ask HN: What are the the most effective measures to protect against burnout?

by Kaizeras on 5/7/23, 1:40 PM with 1 comments

Coming from a country outside the Western world, I became aware of burnout as a psychological phenomenon in the middle of my 20s. Since I moved abroad, I've witnessed burnout in friends and colleagues, and its effects on them have genuinely terrified me because I am relatively ambitious and hard-working, but perhaps not experienced enough to prevent an eventual burnout, and I'm starting to feel I'm next on the line.

I understand that burnout is a side effect of economically developed nations (U.S., China, etc.), where competition is fierce and great scientific, technological, and economic advancements require a great deal of hard work aside from pure luck and intelligence. This tends to create a breeding ground for environments and behaviors that ultimately make people "break".

Being aware that my work and education are pivotal to my life, I'm certain that a burnout would undoubtedly obliterate me as a person. I cannot change the way I function (I'm sorry, I cannot focus on hobbies and "simply enjoy life with a 9-to-5"), so I started to ponder how to avoid this potentially catastrophic event.

These thoughts have been haunting me for months, and I know that there are people on HN who would certainly give me clues on how to take preventative measures.

Provided that you're a workaholic with a high risk appetite, how do you protect yourself against burnout?

One thing I'm certain about is having plenty of savings (low 7-figures in assets, including cash) and no debt in my late 20s. I don't have any hobbies outside of work (as you can already infer from the paragraphs above), don't need to take vacations often, and I am very content with my life. Having financial stability has allowed me to cut off toxic relationships and advance in my career very quickly, as I don't have to deal with work that doesn't excite me or be afraid of losing my job.

EDIT with extra context: Getting into my early 30s and hoping to become a father in the next 10 years. I want to be a good parent who can afford to give the required attention to his children. However, being the personality type I am, I want to make sure I'm prepared enough for the extra stress that will unavoidably come.

  • by 082349872349872 on 5/7/23, 1:52 PM

    > Having financial stability has allowed me to cut off toxic relationships

    If burnout comes from being faced with insoluble problems, always having the possible Gordian solution of traipsing down the hawser line ought to be effective prevention.

    Along these lines, I had a VC once who advised: "if you ever find yourself spending 20 minutes in the shower in the morning, it's time to change jobs".