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6th graders have to deal with a friend's feed of him watching rape porn

by mooreed on 12/12/19, 7:03 PM with 1 comments

  • by mooreed on 12/12/19, 7:03 PM

    ## Heatache

    In a real way, this article shows how 6th grade life is into the "6 degrees of separation from seeing evil"

    In light of these hopefully overblown and hyperbolic headlines I am crushed for parents who lack the skills or knowhow to protect their young minds; I so hope that the article is hyperbole, but if the article contains a modicum of truth, I feel like I have a burden to help advocate for sensible parental advice to other parents.

    ## Call to Action

    After getting the list started, it seems like there are two categorical solutions: technical + non-technical strategies. I would love your help to compile these things so I can tell them to anyone who will listen.

    ### Technical

    1. I have a the home router set to turn off the internet to the kids at night

    2. Use DNS Filtering (eg: `openDNS`) on the home WiFi

    3. Copy the DNS settings to the child's device

    4. Require Access to your children's social accounts and spot check it a few times so as to seem like there might be a check at any time.

    5. Use Parental Controls when sensible

    ### Non Technical

    1. Be very upfront (but age appropriate) with your kids

    2. Proactive communication about sexual education

    3: Delay access to a phone as long as is reasonable

    ## What Else?

    I now put it out to the community - What are other effective strategies/methods you have used?